How many times have you heard guys saying, “I’m not feeling this website,” or, “I’m not feeling the sex match at this website?” Those guys are complete and total idiots. Sorry.

If you’re the type of guy who says that shit, you’re an idiot too. Why? It’s not about your feelings, bitch. The world doesn’t care about your feelings. It doesn’t care about your intentions. It doesn’t care what motivates you. It doesn’t give a fuck about what goes on between your ears. What it does care about is what you do.

I’m not trying to depress you, I’m not trying to diminish you, and I definitely am not trying to insult you. What I am doing and I hope I’m achieving is I’m helping you keep it real. The only thing that is real are actions. Anything that happens before actions like intentions, motivations, pre-calculation, and all that bullshit, it doesn’t matter. It’s what you actually do that matters.

So stop saying that you’re not feeling this match search, instead make match search your bitch. Do whatever it takes for however long it takes to figure out the patterns, so you can effectively hack the dating site that you’re on.

You see, most of these guys that join those websites completely fall by the wayside. They think that it’s too hard. They think that they’re never going to succeed. Whatever the case may be, they give themselves all sorts of reasons to fail.

You don’t have to join them. You don’t have to become another statistic. Your dream of fucking lots of women doesn’t have to be another causality in the highway littered with shattered sex dreams. You don’t have to do any of that.

Focus instead on what you need to do now. This means putting in the time to figure out how the website works, detecting patterns, and just getting in there. It’s all about experimentation. In many cases, online dating is like throwing spaghetti at the wall. You keep throwing noodle, after noodle, after noodle until something sticks.

Once something sticks, then you scale it the fuck up and all the bitches in a 10-mile radius better watch their pussies because you’re coming straight and hard.